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HOW TO SPOT THE SIGNS OF ABUSE

Sometimes it's not easy to recognise abuse, the child often hides it very well in fear of more abuse and we live in a society where we tend to turn a blind eye and don't want to get involved. YOU have the power to change this cycle of abuse!

Signs of:

Sexual Abuse

Physical Signs:

  • Any injury, soreness, redness, swelling or itching around the genital or anal area
  • Venereal disease
  • Fluctuations in body mass
  • Pregnancy

Behavioral Signs:

  • Inappropriate sexual play with self and others
  • Inappropriate sexually explicit drawings
  • Knowledge of sexual acts that is age-inappropriate
  • Seductive behaviour
  • Excessive masturbation
  • Double dressing
  • Avoidance of bathrooms
  • Late arrival or absence from school
  • Personality changes
  • Change in appetite
  • Sudden weight gain/loss
  • Self mutilation
  • Inability to concentrate
  • Locking doors
  • Very eager to please others (over-compliance)
  • Depression
  • Suicidal tendencies
  • Nightmares
  • Not wanting friends to visit at home
  • Not wanting to go home or getting home too early
  • Promiscuity
  • Prostitution
  • Running away

Physical Abuse

Physical Signs:

  • Unexplained bruises or marks
  • Unexplained burns
  • Fractures
  • Lacerations (cuts)
  • Abdominal injuries
  • Bite marks
  • Bruises on the head
  • Unbelievable explanations for injuries

Behavioral Signs:

  • Child is nervous of physical contact with adults
  • Child cries when it is time to leave a protected environment
  • Absence from school
  • Double dressing
  • Habit disorders
  • Slowing down in intellectual and emotional development

Emotional Abuse

Physical Signs:

  • Usually no physical signs are visable

Behavioral Signs:

  • Low self-confidence
  • Withdrawal
  • Too eager to please
  • Personal boundaries that are not well-defined
  • Shows affection indiscriminately or does not show affection much at all
  • Hyper vigilance: Nervous and overly attentive to what is going on around them ("always looking over their shoulder")

Neglect

Physical Signs:

  • Constant hunger and poor hygiene
  • Unattended physical problems (e.g. health problems)

Behavioral Signs:

  • Stealing food
  • Tired and has no energy
  • No delayed gratification (cannot wait for something - wants everything at once)
  • Falling asleep in the classroom
  • Constant early arrival and leaving late from school
  • Delinquency
  • Saying there is no-one to care for him/her

 

Note: It is important to remember that children who have been sexually abused MAY OR MAY NOT exhibit signs and symptoms of the abuse.

A child may also show one or more of the signs or symptoms listed here, but may not have been sexually abused. If you are unsure, consult a professional.

PARENT ZONE

How to spot Abuse
What to do in 
the event of Disclosure

Understanding  
& Helping a Child with::

Bereavement

 

 

 

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