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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

Is Childline only for children who have been sexually abused?

No, Childline is for any child with any problem. Children can call Childline about anything that is making them unhappy. The problems children most often call us about are bullying, family relationships, physical and sexual abuse and pregnancy.

Does Childline receive money from the government?

Only a very small percentage of the total income we need to raise each year comes from statutory funding. We rely on donations from the public and companies just to keep our service running at its current level - and we need to increase this if we are to answer all the children who need us.

Doesn't Childline do more harm than good? Don't you break up families?

Quite the opposite, often our role is to act as a bridge between children and their families. Our counsellors will explore why a child has not felt able to talk to a parent or carer about their problem; they might even rehearse with the child how that conversation could go. Childline helps children to identify a trusted adult in their life whom they feel they could confide in.

Is Childline confidential?

Yes, which is one of the reasons why children feel they can trust us with problems they may never have spoken about before. Before making a referral, say to social services or the police, the counsellor will make sure that the young person understands and agrees. However, if a child's life is in danger, we do everything in our power to ensure their protection.

Can children speak to Childline more than once?

Yes, they can call as often as they need to. Some young people ring us regularly over a period of time, often to speak to the same counsellor, for long-term help and support. One boy rang more than fifty times before he gained the courage to tell his mother of the abuse he had suffered. As a result, the abuser went to prison. Over years a number of children with very serious problems have been in contact with our counselling teams over a period of years. This was often because of protracted court proceedings.

Does Childline just listen to the children or actively try to help during a call?

We listen, and offer ideas. It often takes a great deal of courage for a child to contact us and calling Childline is a first step towards sorting out their problem. Some tell us that their Childline counsellor is the first adult who has ever listened to them. Whenever possible, we try to identify someone in their own life - a parent, teacher or friend - whom they can talk to. Sometimes it helps to practise with the counsellor how this conversation might go.

Do you receive many hoax calls?

Children do not call Childline to make false allegations against named adults. Children call to talk about their pain and distress. We have to persuade them that they have the right to safety, and give them the confidence to ask for help. No call is considered a 'hoax', even if someone seems just to be having a laugh with their friends - this child may be testing Childline's response, and may pluck up the courage to call again later when alone to talk about their problems.

Does Childline work with decision-makers to change things for children?

Yes, we work closely with the government and other children's charities. We are committed to ensuring that this vital work goes on, so that Childline can continue to be a force for changing children's lives for the better.

 

 

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