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WHAT HAPPENS IF A CHILD TELLS SOMEONE ABOUT BEING ABUSED

Children often find it hard to tell an adult about the abuse. They sometimes feel that it is their fault, and they are also worried about the consequences of telling - that they will be taken from their homes, or that the family will be broken up, or that their parents will get into trouble.

They may, however, feel able to talk to another member of their family - for example, an aunt or grandparent. Often families can protect and help children themselves. Children may choose to speak to someone outside their family, for example, a teacher or youth club leader. Many also ring Childline Gauteng.

The legal system 

Under our law, some adults, like teachers, must pass on the information to the police or social services. If a child phones Childline Gauteng to talk about being abused, the counsellor does not have to tell anyone else. Nothing is passed on to the police or social services unless the child wants to take that step or is in serious danger.

There are laws to help protect children and to bring perpetrators to justice. These laws describe what should happen if a child tells about being abused, or is in danger of suffering 'significant harm'.

By law, the local authority has a duty to make enquiries about any allegation of abuse. This means that a social worker may come to talk to the child and the parents, and try to find out the facts, and decide whether the child is in any danger of abuse or neglect. Many investigations go no further than this, but sometimes, social workers decide that they need to have a child protection conference.

Usually, many people from the child's life are invited - teachers, doctors, health visitors, play workers, as well as the police and social workers. The child and their family may also be invited.

The law can also make the person who is believed to be the abuser leave the family home, rather than the child. The police have to go to court to get agreement and it is only for a certain time, but it means that the child can stay in their familiar home, with the other parent and members of their family.

Once a child has made an allegation, the police may also be involved, and the child may be interviewed on video by a member of the police child protection team. The police do this in order to gather evidence to bring the perpetrator to court, and the child may go to court to give evidence when the case is heard.

This can be a harrowing time for children, but with a loving family and counselling or therapeutic help when they need it, there is every hope and chance that they will get better.

 

 

 

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