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EXAM STRESS - AND HOW TO BEAT IT

A modest amount of stress and anxiety can provide valuable stimulus that gets us to study and prepare, otherwise we might not bother to put in our best effort. However, many children worry too much about tests and this can lead to them not sleeping, drinking alcohol and getting headaches

Other bad symptoms can be:

  • Nightmares

  • Depression

  • Suicide

Exams are one of the most stressful of experiences we routinely endure and inflict on others and everybody deals with them differently.

Managing Stress

  • Firstly, not all stress is bad for us - the trick is to get the dose right. If you find exams to be relaxing, or pure pleasure, then you must be misunderstanding something! A modest amount of stress and anxiety can provide valuable stimulus that gets us to study and prepare, otherwise we might not bother to put in our best effort. Anxiety is normal. The exam results are important to you, and not entirely predictable - anyone can be anxious about that. But you don't need to become so anxious that you're crippled by fear. You need to control the anxiety, and not let it control you. You're the boss, even if it doesn't feel like it.

DOs

DON'Ts
  • Plan! Try to work to a revision timetable - start planning well before exams begin.
  • Don't leave revision to the last minute.
  • Summarise! Make your books, notes and essays easier to work with by using summary notes, headings, sub-headings, highlighting and revision cards. Try using key words or anagrams. Get tips on other revision techniques from teachers and friends - do what works for you.

  • Control what you can control, and don't  waste time getting worked up over what you can't control. We don't like being in situations where we can't be  entirely in control of what happens, especially when the result really matters to us. 

  • Revise! Everyone revises differently and is better at different times of day - find out what routine suits you best - alone or with a friend; morning or late at night; short, sharp bursts or longer revision sessions.
  • Don't get into a rut. don't forget that there is a life beyond revision and exams. Relax and take breaks often.
  • Prepare long term! Take notes of important points when revising as an aid for future revision or if you need to clarify something with a teacher. Try explaining the answers to tricky questions to someone else, or look at past exam papers and try answering some of the questions.
  • Don't make your own anxiety such a big deal that it frightens you. Remove yourself from anxiety, if you have friends who get very anxious, wish them well, but don't spend time with them as anxiety can be infectious. If you have friends who take things calmly, time spent with them may help you too.

  • Ask for help if there are things you don't understand. If you're feeling stressed out, talk to someone. 
  • Don't try to cope on your own
  • Be Positive
  • Don't cram ALL night before an exam.
  • Encourage yourself. Give yourself a good pep talk.
  • Don't avoid revising subjects you don't like or find difficult.
  • Do Stay Healthy, exercise, eat well, take breaks and get enough sleep
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